Oh hey. I think i figured out why yall might have different number selections on the same server.
You need to be in the same area too.
Oh, and if you go inside of a building, they also have their own numbers too.
So, for example, if you are both in Ponydale, but one of you is in Sugar Cube corner, and the other is outside, or in the library, the numbers will be different sets.
So, for example, you gotta Both be in the same town, and both outside,
or both in the same building,
then global chat what room you are in to your buddy, then it'll work. ^_^
~ I hope that makes sense >_<
I'll take some screenshots when I finish downloading the updated client
Here are the screenies, to help explain what I'm trying to say...
Both in Ponydale.
This one is outside
of SugarCube Corner:
And this one is Inside Sugarcube Corner: